Unexpected Kindness: Lessons from New Melleray Abbey
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Autopilot. It is a feeling that I think most of us have either felt or certainly understand. And there we were on autopilot.
We were going through the motions of life, completing the hundreds of tasks that needed to be finished, but in a very unknowing, automatic way. … Continue reading
Adventure On
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Though it would have been much easier for the four of us young girls to decline the offer, it was an opportunity that gave us pause. There we stood pondering. Thinking. It was as if we could feel the birth of an adventure. We were experiencing that moment that feels like it’s moving in slow … Continue reading
The Golden List
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Early this spring, I started a new project. I have no idea how or why I thought of this particular idea. It just kinda came to me. I think I was sitting in what my family fondly calls the Big Room in our home - a space that is relatively quiet, on the second floor, furnished with all that … Continue reading
All That. And More.
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Looking back, I know it was a ridiculous job, but at the time, every Saturday morning for an entire summer, I’d head out thinking I was all that and more. I’m pretty sure I’d strut to my workspace - lower level - center aisle - terminal one - Lambert St. Louis International Air Field. … Continue reading
The Making of Our Tapestry
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It was July 20th, 1969 and my grandmother was sitting front and center. She was in what we called the den, aka a summer porch with triple track screen windows, twelve inch square pinkish gray linoleum tile flooring, sturdy leftover furniture, and a state of the art T.V. console. We … Continue reading
Time to Think
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The moment that I confirmed that I had one of the greatest jobs in the world was perhaps the most boring, the simplest, the quietest day ever. I was just sitting in my office, glaring across my desk at a shelf full of books. Not one of those books was open nor had I just read anything.
I … Continue reading
Seeing the Simple
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I didn’t count, but I’m guessing we were 20+ in total. We had pulled tables together and snatched chairs from elsewhere until there were seats for all. It was Friday, and Friday meant lunch. The location was always the same and could only be described as the area’s finest … Continue reading
Anyone Can Learn Anything
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Just recently I had cause to think about one of my favorite thoughts that I had long since tucked in the back of my brain. I had heard this particular statement in my past life from two different, but very noteworthy sources, both of whom I still admire and follow today. And throughout my … Continue reading
“Please sir,” replied Oliver, “I want some more.”
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It’s really no secret. It’s just not.
My family knows it. Most of my friends know it. Mainly because I’ve talked about my trials and tribulations with it. They know it’s one of my continual, enduring quests. A path that has not yet ended. It’s always been on my to-do … Continue reading
Did Someone Say Annie Oakley?
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Fifty-five years plus later, and I still smile when I think about that jingle. Just that tiny little jingle No matter how loud the outdoor noise on top of the indoor noise would be, whether windows opened or windows closed, I could still hear that little jingle. A unique sound. The … Continue reading
Oh, Deb!
“Oh Deb, stop being so naïve!”
Those six words. Those impactful six words.
They were mad mumbled many many moons ago. There I was a relatively new academic administrator at a rural community college. I was happily dancing in a world of teaching and learning … Continue reading
IT’S ALL GOOD
It started out as a regular beach vacation day. Plans were for all of us to spend the day at the shore, pretty much doing what every family does at a beach - sitting, talking, swimming, laughing, playing games, and anything else that can be done while watching and listening to the … Continue reading
Aunt Dolly
On that beautiful, ordinary summer Saturday, my mom, my dad and I were finishing a much over due chore.
Aunt Dolly had passed on a few months prior. She had spent 99% of her life in her tiny second floor flat. Clean, tidy, sparsely furnished with her long time keepsakes, Dolly managed to live … Continue reading